I am not sure about me…
I do everything to help others including sharing my car with my housemate for over six months. I always seem to put me second to the wants and needs of others and then get annoyed when I ask for something and do not get it. I asked for the patio table together since I cannot get the legs intno the slots, “I ‘ll do it tomorrow” but that day has not yet come. I am sure I can screw the rest of it together if only I could get those darn legs attached. It should be easy for a man with muscles but definitely not for me.
When I look at my past it has been one repetition of events after another: I give and when I want do not get. I guess that is the definition of a Codependent Personality. At my age I probably won’t change part of it is because I need to be needed and would want others to be as goo to me as I am to them In the bible it says “do unto others as you would have them do unto you” but now I think it is more the newer version do unto others before they do unto you!
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